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Thursday, March 12, 2020

I have always considered SP a safe place to say how I really feel.

I did that the other day and someone, in a seemingly transference type moment, seemed quite frustrated based on an experience with someone else my words seemed to trigger.

Already feeling vulnerable, I found these words hurtful.



Everyone's feelings here are valid. Not only that, each of us is entitled to feel how we feel, the way we think, and to express it.

Those who experience difficulty with that because they feel discomfort in some way, please pass my page by instead of leaving a comment. I'm here to get better, be heard, meet others who can relate, and maybe one day - my dream of all dreams - heal.

Thank you for listening/reading.
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  • DARCY-B
    I did not. I tend to withdraw when wounded and stay there.
    79 days ago
  • NIGHTSKYSTAR
    so sorry you were hurt by a cooment!!!! did you tell the person? i find that typing words can sometimes be done with one intent but someone else takes them differently. unfortunately we cant transfer emotion with them, and what seems helpful when typing can be taken in a different way. I'd want to know if i offended someone...as personally i only try to help, but understand that things can be taken differently. you are absolutely correct that everyones feelings are valid whether we agree with them or not!!
    85 days ago
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